Tuesday, May 15, 2012
Choosing the Right Man
Ladies do you have a friend who is with the wrong man? I am sure you do, we ALL do! (Or at least have at some point) What's wrong with him? Does he cheat? Is he condescending? Does he not LOVE her the way she deserves to be loved? Okay, okay your friend is not perfect either but he is a lot less perfect right? Here is my advise for them, would they want their daughters to be with someone who treats them like that? This is a really hard question for those of you who are not moms yet... You cant possibly know the depth of love you will feel and how you will want to protect them. But try to imagine your sister, friend, niece in a relationship that isn't right for them. Do you want to be the example of what to do or what not to do? I totally LOVE Mr Pia if my daughter grew up and married someone just like him I would know that she was a very lucky woman. Is he perfect, NO! Does he make me CRAZY? Yes! Are there times when I just want to beat him in his sleep? Sure. But we are married and we love each other and the things that he does wrong consist of working too hard, being OCD with home repairs, and not doing the dishes. All things that I most certainly can live with, I guess! So ask yourself this are you living by the same advise that you would give another? Would you tell someone you love to stay?